Why a lot of youths tend to become addicted? Why some parts of the city are corrupted and young people are drowned in drunkenness and filth? The answer is summarized in one sentence: It’s all about low self esteem.

We can’t deny the fact that there are a lot of people who have been in noxious and immoral situations but because of admirable reasons they weren’t absorbed in those immoralities and stood away from those situations. If you ask them why they weren’t absorbed in badness like others, they have a very fantastic answer. They may tell you some sentences like these:
” my worth is more than this and this situation doesn’t deserve me” or “it’s below my dignity to be a naughty and charlatan person” or “I don’t let any bully and aggressive person to underestimate me, let alone ordering and dictating” and in some other situations they may give you an answer like” this scene isn’t worth seeing” or “I shouldn’t humiliate myself by going there”.

They won’t be absorbed in badness just because of their self-esteem. Here we can notice the magic power of self-esteem in our lives. In our daily lives we see that when people want to humiliate a person, the first thing they do is destructing his/her self-esteem. Then it will be so easy to devastate the person and drown him/her in misery.

Self-confidence and all other elements that lead to personal, family and social success relate to the amount of self-esteem we have. Self-esteem acts like a shining guard that protects the person from filth. Not only it prohibits the entrance of filth to one’s life, but it also shows the ability of improving.

If you don’t respect yourself and don’t pay attention to your self-esteem, be sure that the shield around your spirit is damaged and filth will enter your life and pierce your personality, spirit and even your body. So self-esteem is a very important factor in our lives. All the successful people have got something conspicuous in their personality that may attract you and it is a high level of self-esteem.

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